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Compassionate Care on the Frontlines of Memory Research

Written by Butler Hospital | Apr 11, 2025 11:00:00 AM

In an office at Butler Hospital's Memory and Aging Program (MAP), nurse practitioner Lyndsay DeMatteo speaks with a patient and family member about their participation in a clinical trial. With a warm smile and attentive demeanor, she navigates the complex emotions that come with memory loss while explaining the latest research developments in Alzheimer's disease.

"I try to approach every patient and family with honesty and empathy," DeMatteo says, reflecting on how she balances hope with realistic expectations. "While these studies may or may not offer immediate benefits, their participation is helping to shape the future of treatment."

A Multifaceted Journey to MAP

DeMatteo's path to specialized memory care began at Union College, where she earned her B.S. in Neuroscience. Working as a research assistant in the college's Healthy Aging Lab sparked what would become a lifelong dedication to caring for older adults.

After graduation, DeMatteo's commitment to serving aging populations led her to AmeriCorps in Nevada, where she worked as a Senior Programs Recreation Coordinator. This experience inspired her to pursue an M.S. in Gerontology at the University of Southern California, deepening her understanding of the unique challenges and needs of older adults.

DeMatteo's professional journey continued with three years in therapeutic recreation at an adult day center before pivoting toward advanced nursing education. She completed a direct-entry program at Yale School of Nursing, followed by an APRN fellowship with Yale Medicine specializing in geriatric healthcare.

In 2021, DeMatteo joined Butler Hospital's Memory and Aging Program, bringing with her a rich tapestry of experiences across various geriatric care settings. For her, joining a leading global center for Alzheimer’s research represented an opportunity to contribute to meaningful work with far-reaching implications.

"I was drawn to MAP because of its dedication to advancing Alzheimer's disease research and improving the lives of those affected by memory disorders," she explains. "The opportunity to contribute to such meaningful work alongside experts in the field was incredibly compelling."

Finding Reward Amid Challenges

Working with patients facing cognitive decline presents unique challenges. For DeMatteo, witnessing the intense impact of Alzheimer's disease on patients and their families can be emotionally taxing.

"One of the most challenging aspects is having to witness the profound impact that Alzheimer's disease can have on these individuals and their families," she acknowledges. "It is, at times, heartbreaking, and often serves as a reminder of how much is at stake."

Yet these same challenges fuel DeMatteo's commitment to her work. The knowledge that her contributions may help advance treatments, improve early detection, and enhance quality of life provides deep personal fulfillment.

Words of Wisdom for Patients and Families

Drawing from her extensive experience in geriatric care, DeMatteo offers heartfelt advice for those at risk of developing Alzheimer's disease or who have recently received a diagnosis.

"Above all else, you are not defined by an Alzheimer's disease diagnosis. It's just a part of your story," she emphasizes.

She encourages patients and families to stay informed about care updates and available treatments, noting that "knowledge is power." Physical and mental activity through exercise and hobbies is crucial for promoting brain health. "Like we always say, what's good for the heart is good for the brain!"

Perhaps most importantly, DeMatteo stresses the value of community support. "It's crucial not to face this journey alone. Reach out to family, friends, or a support group to connect with others and establish a safety net for yourself."

As MAP continues its vital work in Alzheimer's research and clinical care, DeMatteo remains dedicated to making a difference in the lives of patients and families affected by memory disorders. Her journey from neuroscience student to specialized nurse practitioner exemplifies the commitment and compassion that drive advancements in the field of memory care. Each patient interaction represents not just an opportunity to provide excellent clinical care, but also a step toward a future where Alzheimer's disease may be better understood, more effectively treated, and perhaps one day prevented.